Fatema’s journey to freedom began in 2001, when the Taliban’s departure from Afghanistan marked the first time she was allowed to pursue an education.
“For the first time, my parents gave me permission to attend school in 7th grade,” she recalled. “Later, I went to university and found a job with an international organization, working as a social worker for gender equality.”
As the first woman in her family to receive an education, Fatema experienced nearly two decades of relative freedom and stability in Afghanistan. She thrived as a young adult, deeply involved in efforts to promote women’s rights. But the Taliban’s relentless attacks on rural areas where she worked brought their oppressive policies back into the fold, threatening the freedoms Fatema had fought so hard to advance for Afghan women. By 2017, Fatema feared for her life.
“My life was in danger,” Fatema said, in a voice heavy with emotion. “The Taliban would never accept a woman’s freedom. I couldn’t stay, and I can’t go back.”
No one, no one, no one wants to leave their country of origin. It’s not easy to leave your country and go to another country and start from zero.”
Fatema lived with uncertainty as a refugee in Turkey for 7 years until she received life-changing news.
“When they called me and told me that ‘You’re accepted by the U.S. government,’ I cried a lot. It’s not easy to leave your country without any destiny, and you don’t know what will happen to you, your family, and your child. It’s so hard,” said Fatema through tears. She was finally able to start picturing her family’s future in the United States.
In November 2024, Fatema arrived in Minnesota with her husband and son as refugees through Arrive Ministries. The moment she stepped off the plane, she was in disbelief.
“I couldn’t believe it,” she said. “But we are so grateful. The United States gave us a chance to start over. We promise to do our best, to be a positive and valuable part of this society.”
For Fatema, America represents freedom: freedom to live, to contribute, and to pursue her dreams.
In America, if you want to be a positive, useful person, you can be. That’s what I plan to do.”
Despite the hope she feels for her future, Fatema carries a deep sorrow for the women of Afghanistan.
“Afghan women are incredibly strong,” she said, her voice firm with conviction. “They face unimaginable challenges and restrictions, but they are so intelligent, kind, and capable. Given the right opportunities, they can become incredible leaders.”
Fatema is determined to honor the strength of those women by continuing to build a future for herself, her family, and her community.
I am a refugee, a mother, a wife, an educated woman, a good manager, and an Afghan woman,” she said with pride. “My dream is simple: to help others, to stay positive, and to do my very best.”
Through her journey, Fatema has refused to be defined by her circumstances and now stands ready to help others do the same.
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